{"id":107,"date":"2010-10-18T17:10:38","date_gmt":"2010-10-18T22:10:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.wordpress.com\/2010\/10\/18\/suy-nghi-lac-quan-thay-doi-ban\/"},"modified":"2010-10-18T17:10:38","modified_gmt":"2010-10-18T22:10:38","slug":"suy-nghi-lac-quan-thay-doi-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/2010\/10\/18\/suy-nghi-lac-quan-thay-doi-ban\/","title":{"rendered":"Suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan, thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<br \/><span class='imgcenter'><img alt='' src='http:\/\/files.myopera.com\/vtnduc_HRM\/blog\/think_positive.jpg' \/><\/span> &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n gieo h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5y. Gieo m\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7t d\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Gieo m\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. Ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i, t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd n\u1edf hoa. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mang nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u0169, m\u1ecdi r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00ec b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u0169. V\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c, t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 m\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. D\u00f9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. Ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau c\u1ed1 h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. V\u00e0i g\u1ee3i \u00fd nh\u1ecf sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh: <\/strong>Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp hay h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p xung quanh. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, 8 ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 1\/3 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u1edf c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c thay v\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3.  <\/p>\n<p><strong>Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1:<\/strong> Khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, thay v\u00ec h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng v\u00ec ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd hay m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u00f5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch y\u00eau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c:<\/strong> Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, v\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t cao nh\u1ea5t. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u00e3y x\u1ed1c l\u1ea1i tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea th\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i th\u00ec r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c theo nh\u00f3m:<\/strong> C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p \u0103n \u00fd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. S\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nhau gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00e2ng cao ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: <\/strong>H\u00e3y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng trau d\u1ed3i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e2ng cao \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu so v\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>Source from Internet<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2,4,31,10,12],"tags":[180,221,340,345,368],"class_list":["post-107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","category-chia-se","category-kien-thuc-kinh-nghiem-hr","category-nhan-su","category-phat-trien-ban-than","tag-hrm-experience","tag-leadership","tag-think-positive","tag-together-winning","tag-vu-thanh-nam-duc"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}