\u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. H\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3: "N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n".<\/p>\n
– C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i?<\/p>\n
– T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 may m\u1eafn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n th\u1eed c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u01b0a? K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y xa l\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cao nh\u1ea5t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i (ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. Th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed cho vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u1ede Valley Station, Kentucky, m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1edbp, b\u1ed1 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
B\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ba t\u00f4i t\u00ean Bill. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o \u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i, m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch "Bill!Bill!".<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mua m\u1ed9t con v\u1eb9t. Trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn, con v\u1eb9t b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00eau la th\u1ea5t thanh "Bill!Bill!". B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00ednh con v\u1eb9t l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ed7i cho ba t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua, sau r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, ba t\u00f4i th\u1edf d\u00e0i: "Em y\u00eau. Anh \u0111\u00e3 70 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i. H\u00e3y tha cho anh \u0111i".<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y ba t\u00f4i l\u00e0m v\u00ed d\u1ee5. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y. D\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t hoan ngh\u00eanh.<\/p>\n
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