{"id":845,"date":"2017-05-06T15:02:33","date_gmt":"2017-05-06T08:02:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.wordpress.com\/?p=845"},"modified":"2017-05-06T15:02:33","modified_gmt":"2017-05-06T08:02:33","slug":"sharing-nguoi-co-van-gioi-la-nguoi-kho-tim-vay-chung-ta-tim-gi-o-nguoi-co-van","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/vuthanhnamduc.com\/index.php\/2017\/05\/06\/sharing-nguoi-co-van-gioi-la-nguoi-kho-tim-vay-chung-ta-tim-gi-o-nguoi-co-van\/","title":{"rendered":"[Sharing] Ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u1ed1 V\u1ea5n gi\u1ecfi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm: V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm g\u00ec \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u1ed1 V\u1ea5n"},"content":{"rendered":"

A Good Mentor Is Hard to Find: What to Look for in a Mentor<\/strong><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng l\u00ean t\u1ea7m cao. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o ho\u1eb7c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n.
\nNh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00ec kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n?<\/p>\n

1. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec.
\nB\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3.
\nV\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tham gia qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.
\nM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kinh nghi\u1ec7m li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn kinh doanh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t \u1edf r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n

2. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t n\u00ean chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n (personal integrity<\/strong>) v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u00a0l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh trong b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n\u00a0chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 – ho\u1eb7c cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i – khi h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.
\nM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho th\u1eddi gian c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean h\u1eefu \u00edch, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng\u00a0khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.
\nH\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng chia s\u1ebb t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng cho c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 kinh doanh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong n\u00f3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh\u00a0h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.
\nH\u1ecd n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u01b0\u1edfng cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb, vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e0i b\u00e1o ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c.
\nH\u1ecd n\u00ean nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc th\u00eam.
\nB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c blog ho\u1eb7c s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m tra c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi hay, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cheerleader.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u1eeb t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t ra, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i.
\nNh\u01b0ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 cheerleader.
\nH\u1ecd c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m, \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i khu v\u1ef1c an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0\u00a0c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eady.
\nKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t hay t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n:\u00a0Sarah White<\/a>\u00a0– Freelance Writer, Editor, Professional Crafter –\u00a0D\u1ecbch b\u1edfi V\u0169 Th\u00e0nh Nam \u0110\u1ee9c (B\u1ea3n ti\u1ebfng Anh Good Mentor<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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