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Ca\u0301c ba\u0323n m\u00ea\u0301n,<\/p>\n

H\u00f4m nay b\u00ean h\u00f4\u0323i hoa xu\u00e2n, nam thanh n\u01b0\u0303 tu\u0301 d\u00e2\u0323p di\u0300u, c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i no\u0301i x\u00f4n xao. Nh\u01b0ng ai \u0111o\u0301 l\u00e2\u0300m lu\u0303i gi\u01b0\u0303a do\u0300ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, nhi\u0300n nh\u01b0\u0303ng ca\u0301nh hoa mu\u00f4n s\u0103\u0301c ma\u0300 nghe lo\u0300ng t\u00ea ta\u0301i: "Hoa \u01a1i, sao ng\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u0301 v\u00f4 ti\u0300nh?"<\/p>\n

H\u00f4m qua tr\u01a1\u0300i m\u01b0a, nh\u01b0\u0303ng em be\u0301 t\u0103\u0301m m\u01b0a c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111u\u0300a trong he\u0309m nho\u0309, \u0111\u00f4i ti\u0300nh nh\u00e2n \u00f4m nhau che du\u0300 b\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c trong m\u01b0a. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i c\u00f4 phu\u0323 ch\u01a1\u0300 ch\u00f4\u0300ng nhi\u0300n nh\u01b0\u0303ng do\u0300ng m\u01b0a nh\u01b0 nh\u01b0\u0303ng do\u0300ng n\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c m\u0103\u0301t.<\/p>\n

V\u00e2\u0323y thi\u0300 m\u01b0a bu\u00f4\u0300n hay vui? Hoa v\u00f4 ti\u0300nh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd?
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M\u01b0a chi\u0309 la\u0300 m\u01b0a. Hoa chi\u0309 la\u0300 hoa. Hoa \u0111\u00e2u co\u0301 y\u0301 ti\u0300nh, m\u01b0a \u0111\u00e2u co\u0301 bu\u00f4\u0300n vui. Ch\u0103\u0309ng qua chi\u0309 vi\u0300 lo\u0300ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i xu\u00f4\u0301ng l\u00ean, b\u00e2\u0323p b\u00ea\u0300nh, tr\u00f4i n\u00f4\u0309i.<\/p>\n

T\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 nh\u01b0\u0303ng hi\u00ea\u0323n t\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng b\u00ean ngoa\u0300i, \u0111\u00ea\u0300u kh\u00f4ng co\u0301 y\u0301 nghi\u0303a gi\u0300 t\u01b0\u0323 chu\u0301ng ca\u0309; ca\u0301c y\u0301 nghi\u0303a \u0111\u00ea\u0300u t\u01b0\u0300 t\u01b0 duy cu\u0309a ta ma\u0300 sinh ra. M\u01b0a chi\u0309 la\u0300 m\u01b0a; n\u00ea\u0301u ta cho la\u0300 m\u01b0a bu\u00f4\u0300n thi\u0300 m\u01b0a bu\u00f4\u0300n, n\u00ea\u0301u ta cho la\u0300 m\u01b0a vui thi\u0300 m\u01b0a vui. N\u0103\u0301ng chi\u0309 la\u0300 n\u0103\u0301ng; n\u00ea\u0301u ta cho la\u0300 n\u0103\u0301ng \u0111e\u0323p thi\u0300 n\u0103\u0301ng \u0111e\u0323p, n\u00ea\u0301u ta cho la\u0300 n\u0103\u0301ng cho\u0301i thi\u0300 n\u0103\u0301ng cho\u0301i.<\/p>\n

T\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 ca\u0301c ti\u0300nh ca\u0309m-vui, bu\u00f4\u0300n, gi\u00e2\u0323n, ghe\u0301t, y\u00eau, thi\u0301ch-chi\u0309 la\u0300 pha\u0309n \u01b0\u0301ng cu\u0309a ta \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i s\u01b0\u0323 vi\u00ea\u0323c b\u00ean ngoa\u0300i. N\u00ea\u0301u cha\u0300ng tr\u00ea\u0303 he\u0323n ma\u0300 ta cau co\u0301 pha\u0300n na\u0300n thi\u0300 cu\u0303ng pha\u0309i, ho\u0103\u0323c ta c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i vui vi\u0300 ke\u0323t xe th\u00ea\u0301 ma\u0300 cha\u0300ng cu\u0303ng \u0111\u00ea\u0301n cho b\u0103\u0300ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c thi\u0300 cu\u0303ng pha\u0309i. Tr\u00ea\u0303 he\u0323n chi\u0309 la\u0300 tr\u00ea\u0303 he\u0323n. \u0110o\u0301 ch\u0103\u0309ng pha\u0309i la\u0300 chuy\u00ea\u0323n vui hay bu\u00f4\u0300n, t\u00f4\u0301t hay x\u00e2\u0301u. Vui bu\u00f4\u0300n chi\u0309 la\u0300 pha\u0309n \u01b0\u0301ng cu\u0309a ta \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i vi\u00ea\u0323c tr\u00ea\u0303 he\u0323n th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

N\u01b0\u0309a ly n\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c, n\u00ea\u0301u no\u0301i la\u0300 \u0111\u00e2\u0300y n\u01b0\u0309a ly thi\u0300 cu\u0303ng \u0111u\u0301ng, ma\u0300 ca\u0323n n\u01b0\u0309a ly thi\u0300 cu\u0303ng \u0111u\u0301ng. \u0110\u0103\u0300ng na\u0300o cu\u0303ng \u0111u\u0301ng. T\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 chi\u0309 tu\u0300y thu\u00f4\u0323c va\u0300o s\u01b0\u0323 l\u01b0\u0323a cho\u0323n cu\u0309a chu\u0301ng ta th\u00f4i. Ta mu\u00f4\u0301n t\u01b0 duy ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c, y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1\u0300i, ma\u0323nh me\u0303? Hay la\u0300 mu\u00f4\u0301n la\u0300m ke\u0309 pha\u0300n na\u0300n, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i thua cu\u00f4\u0323c? 090321_Positivethingking<\/p>\n

Vui bu\u00f4\u0300n, y\u00eau ghe\u0301t, ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c, kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i t\u01b0\u0300 ngoa\u0300i \u0111\u00ea\u0301n. Cu\u0303ng kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i la\u0300 b\u1ea3n ti\u0301nh tr\u01a1\u0300i sinh. Chu\u0301ng chi\u0309 la\u0300 tho\u0301i quen cu\u0309a ta pha\u0309n \u01b0\u0301ng la\u0323i v\u01a1\u0301i ca\u0301c ta\u0301c nh\u00e2n b\u00ean ngoa\u0300i. N\u00ea\u0301u ta quen ca\u0300u nha\u0300u, pha\u0300n na\u0300n, ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c, thi\u0300 ca\u0309 \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ca\u0300u nha\u0300u, pha\u0300n na\u0300n, ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c. (Va\u0300 co\u0301 le\u0303 la\u0300 cu\u0303ng se\u0303 k\u00ea\u0301t h\u00f4n v\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ca\u0300u nha\u0300u, pha\u0300n na\u0300n, ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c. N\u00f4\u0300i na\u0300o vung n\u00e2\u0301y). N\u00ea\u0301u ta quen m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, vui ve\u0309, n\u00f4\u0300ng nhi\u00ea\u0323t, thi\u0300 ca\u0309 \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, vui ve\u0309, n\u00f4\u0300ng nhi\u00ea\u0323t.<\/p>\n

Va\u0300 trong hai loa\u0323i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i na\u0300y, ba\u0323n bi\u00ea\u0301t la\u0300 ai se\u0303 tha\u0300nh c\u00f4ng trong \u0111\u01a1\u0300i, pha\u0309i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Ba\u0323n m\u01a1\u0301i mua m\u00f4\u0323t chi\u00ea\u0301c xe ma\u0301y, \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c va\u0300i h\u00f4m \u0111a\u0303 bi\u0323 tai na\u0323n, chi\u00ea\u0301c xe na\u0301t b\u00e2\u0301y, v\u00e2\u0323y la\u0300 xui hay h\u00ean? N\u00ea\u0301u chi\u00ea\u0301c xe na\u0301t b\u00e2\u0301y ma\u0300 gi\u01a1\u0300 n\u00e2\u0300y ba\u0323n co\u0300n ng\u00f4\u0300i no\u0301i chuy\u00ea\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c, thi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 xui hay h\u00ean v\u00e2\u0323y?<\/p>\n

N\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n thi ho\u0309ng, kh\u00f4ng va\u0300o \u0111a\u0323i ho\u0323c \u01b0u ti\u00ean m\u00f4\u0323t \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c, thi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 vi\u00ea\u0323c t\u00f4\u0301t hay x\u00e2\u0301u?<\/p>\n

N\u00ea\u0301u kh\u00f4ng va\u0300o \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng y nh\u01b0ng la\u0323i va\u0300o tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng lu\u00e2\u0323t, bi\u00ea\u0301t \u0111\u00e2u \u0111o\u0301 la\u0323i ch\u0103\u0309ng la\u0300 d\u00e2\u0301u hi\u00ea\u0323u ba\u0323n h\u01a1\u0323p ngh\u00ea\u0300 lu\u00e2\u0323t h\u01a1n va\u0300 sau na\u0300y se\u0303 tha\u0300nh c\u00f4ng l\u01a1\u0301n trong ngh\u00ea\u0300 lu\u00e2\u0323t.<\/p>\n

N\u00ea\u0301u ch\u0103\u0309ng co\u0301 \u0111a\u0323i ho\u0323c na\u0300o nh\u00e2\u0323n ba\u0323n ca\u0309, co\u0301 le\u0303 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 d\u00e2\u0301u hi\u00ea\u0323u ba\u0323n se\u0303 pha\u0309i theo con \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng la\u0300m \u0103n cu\u0309a Bill Gates.<\/p>\n

Co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0303i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i chu\u0301ng ta co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t ti\u0301 di truy\u00ea\u0300n t\u01b0\u0300 b\u00f4\u0301 me\u0323. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00ea\u0301u mi\u0300nh kh\u00f4ng chi\u0323u t\u00e2\u0323p t\u01b0 duy ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c r\u00f4\u0300i c\u01b0\u0301 \u0111\u00f4\u0309 l\u00f4\u0303i cho b\u00f4\u0301 me\u0323 v\u00ea\u0300 ti\u0301nh ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c mu\u00f4n n\u0103m cu\u0309a mi\u0300nh, thi\u0300 r\u00e2\u0301t b\u00e2\u0301t c\u00f4ng cho b\u00f4\u0301 me\u0323, va\u0300 b\u00e2\u0301t c\u00f4ng cho ca\u0309 \u00f4ng tr\u01a1\u0300i n\u01b0\u0303a \u0111o\u0301. Mu\u00f4\u0301n bi\u00ea\u0301t la\u0300m toa\u0301n thi\u0300 chi\u0309 co\u0301 ca\u0301ch la\u0300 \u0111i ho\u0323c toa\u0301n ma\u0300 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng la\u0300m th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300o \u0111\u00ea\u0309 t\u00e2\u0323p \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c m\u00f4\u0323t t\u01b0 duy ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c?<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0301 nh\u00e2\u0301t, m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ca\u0309 nga\u0300y, nh\u00e2\u0301t la\u0300 khi no\u0301i chuy\u00ea\u0323n v\u01a1\u0301i ai.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0301 hai, g\u0103\u0323p b\u00e2\u0301t ky\u0300 chuy\u00ea\u0323n gi\u0300, du\u0300 xem ra co\u0301 ve\u0309 x\u00e2\u0301u ca\u0301ch m\u00e2\u0301y, ta cu\u0303ng pha\u0309i ho\u0309i: "Chuy\u00ea\u0323n na\u0300y co\u0301 gi\u0300 hay? Co\u0301 gi\u0300 t\u00f4\u0301t?" N\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n ti\u0300m kh\u00f4ng ra c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i, ho\u0309i ti\u00ea\u0301p cho \u0111\u00ea\u0301n khi th\u00e2\u0301y c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0301 ba, ba\u0323n se\u0303 kh\u00f4ng ti\u0300m ra c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i n\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n n\u00f4\u0309i no\u0301ng, m\u00e2\u0301t bi\u0300nh ti\u0303nh, than kho\u0301c, pha\u0300n na\u0300n. Tri\u0301 o\u0301c con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea\u0309 la\u0300m vi\u00ea\u0323c t\u00f4\u0301t trong nh\u01b0\u0303ng \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u ki\u00ea\u0323n kho\u0301 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301. Vi\u0300 v\u00e2\u0323y, u\u00f4\u0301ng va\u0300i ngu\u0323m n\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c, ng\u00e2n nga m\u00f4\u0323t ba\u0309n nha\u0323c, \u0111i b\u00f4\u0323 va\u0300i ba vo\u0300ng, tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c va\u0300 trong khi ho\u0309i.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0301 t\u01b0, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00ea\u0309 t\u00e2m \u0111\u00ea\u0301n ca\u0301i t\u00f4\u0301t, ca\u0301i hay, ca\u0301i \u0111a\u0301ng th\u00f4ng ca\u0309m cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c, va\u0300 \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng c\u01b0\u0301 chu\u0301 t\u00e2m va\u0300o ca\u0301i x\u00e2\u0301u, ca\u0301i \u0111a\u0301ng ghe\u0301t cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Ai cu\u0303ng co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301i gi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 \u0111a\u0301ng cho mi\u0300nh thi\u0301ch, \u0111a\u0301ng cho mi\u0300nh th\u00f4ng ca\u0309m. N\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2\u0301y \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c \u0111i\u00ea\u0309m na\u0300o \u0111a\u0301ng y\u00eau, \u0111a\u0301ng phu\u0323c, \u0111a\u0301ng ca\u0309m th\u00f4ng trong m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i na\u0300o \u0111o\u0301, thi\u0300 nh\u00e2\u0301t \u0111i\u0323nh la\u0300 \u0111\u00e2\u0300u o\u0301c cu\u0309a ba\u0323n co\u0301 v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300, ch\u01b0a bi\u00ea\u0301t ca\u0301ch suy nghi\u0303 chi\u0301nh xa\u0301c.<\/p>\n

Chi\u0309 gia\u0309n di\u0323 th\u00ea\u0301 th\u00f4i. Va\u0300 "luy\u00ea\u0323n t\u00e2\u0323p se\u0303 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00ea\u0301n toa\u0300n thi\u00ea\u0323n" (practice makes perfect). C\u01b0\u0301 t\u00e2\u0323p hoa\u0300i thi\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t lu\u0301c na\u0300o \u0111o\u0301 ba\u0323n chi\u0309 co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 t\u01b0 duy ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c, va\u0300 \u0111\u00e2\u0300u o\u0301c cu\u0309a ba\u0323n m\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 kha\u0309 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy ti\u00eau c\u01b0\u0323c. Lu\u0301c \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 lu\u0301c \u0111a\u0323i c\u00f4ng ca\u0301o tha\u0300nh.<\/p>\n

Chu\u0301c ca\u0301c ba\u0323n m\u00f4\u0323t nga\u0300y vui ve\u0309.
Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 Tr\u1ea7n \u0110\u00ecnh Hoa\u0300nh (Washington DC, M\u1ef9)
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